Lets talk gross

i have been spending endless amounts of time looking at gynecologists profiles..i know what? and question.... how do you find someone that you are cool with violating you and is if violating if you sign up for it? yikes im not looking forward to this road i have to travel down. and this is when i rethink marriage (kidding Andrew love you) and honestly i dont know why im looking at their profiles because im unsure if i should be judging them on how they look (would an unattractive person make me feel better about myself while they do their damage?) or their age (would a grandma make me feel calm and comfortable? probably not) I'm thinking about just pulling  a number out of hat...i mean that's normal right?